Toi et Moi Engagement Rings

Toi et moi — French for “you and me” — is the engagement ring style that tells a love story with two stones. Originating with Napoléon Bonaparte’s proposal to Joséphine in 1796, the design places two individual gemstones side by side on a single band, each one representing a person, together forming an inseparable whole.

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Platinum Pear & Round Lab Grown Diamond Refined Toi et Moi Ring

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Price range: $1,082.96 through $1,484.02
This platinum Toi et Moi engagement ring unites two stunning Pear and Round lab grown diamonds. Their deliberate asymmetry creates a modern sculptural look with deep romantic symbolism.
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18K Gold Princess & Pear Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $758.80 through $1,361.13
Luxurious and unique, this 18K gold Toi et Moi engagement ring pairs princess and pear shape moissanite stones in refined prong settings for a bold romantic statement.
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14K Gold Round & Pear Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $878.37 through $1,797.47
Romantic and contemporary, this 14K gold Toi et Moi engagement ring features round and pear shape moissanite stones in elegant prong settings designed to shine from every angle.
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14K Gold Marquise & Pear Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $629.71 through $1,179.37
This elegant 14K gold Toi et Moi engagement ring pairs marquise and pear shape moissanite stones in sparkling prong settings for a romantic and modern aesthetic.
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14K Gold Emerald & Marquise Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $539.72 through $992.72
Graceful and distinctive, this 14K gold engagement ring features emerald and marquise moissanite stones in an elegant Toi et Moi design that symbolizes everlasting connection.
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14K Gold Princess & Pear Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $1,176.92 through $2,281.65
This sophisticated 14K gold Toi et Moi engagement ring combines princess and pear shape moissanite stones in classic prong settings for a bold and romantic statement.
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10K Rose Gold Radiant & Pear Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $734.74 through $1,337.07
Modern and elegant, this 10K rose gold engagement ring features radiant and pear shape moissanite stones in a stunning Toi et Moi design full of brilliance and meaning.
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14K Rose Gold Round & Pear Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $530.27 through $1,029.79
This romantic 14K rose gold Toi et Moi engagement ring pairs round and pear shape moissanite stones in elegant prong settings to symbolize two hearts becoming one.
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14K Gold Emerald & Pear Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $612.97 through $1,112.49
This romantic 14K gold Toi et Moi engagement ring pairs emerald and pear shape moissanite stones in elegant prong settings for a modern symbol of love and unity.
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14K Gold Pear & Marquise Moissanite Prong Set Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $567.86 through $1,067.38
Unique and elegant, this 14K gold Toi et Moi engagement ring combines pear and marquise moissanite stones in a graceful prong setting for a sophisticated modern look.
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10K Gold Pear Shape Moissanite Bezel Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

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Price range: $783.67 through $1,570.89
Modern and meaningful, this 10K gold Toi et Moi engagement ring pairs two pear shape moissanite stones in sleek bezel settings, symbolizing the union of two souls.
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Everything You Need to Know About Toi et Moi Rings

What Is a Toi et Moi Ring?

A toi et moi ring is a two-stone ring in which two gemstones share a single band, positioned side by side rather than stacked or surrounded. The two stones are typically different in cut, colour, or even stone type — the contrast is the point. The style is widely considered the most intimate engagement ring design because each stone literally represents one person in the relationship, united permanently on one ring. It differs from a three-stone ring (which carries a past-present-future meaning) and a solitaire in its deliberate duality and visual tension between two equally important focal points.

A Design With Centuries of Romance

The toi et moi style has one of the richest origin stories in jewellery history. In 1796, a 26-year-old Napoléon Bonaparte presented Joséphine de Beauharnais with a simple gold ring set with a pear-shaped sapphire alongside a pear-shaped diamond — two stones, two souls, one promise. That ring reportedly sold at auction in 2013 for nearly €950,000. The design resurfaced in popular culture through Jackie Kennedy's emerald and diamond toi et moi ring, and more recently through celebrity engagements including Emily Ratajkowski and Ariana Grande, catapulting it back to the top of engagement ring trends — where it has remained ever since.

Popular Stone Combinations

The beauty of a toi et moi ring lies in how personal the stone pairing can be. Common combinations include:

  • Diamond + Diamond — a timeless, high-contrast pairing in different cuts (oval and pear are perennial favourites)
  • Diamond + Sapphire — a nod to the iconic Napoléon and Jackie Kennedy designs
  • Diamond + Emerald — bold, romantic, deeply personal
  • Diamond + Ruby — rich in colour symbolism, striking in presence
  • Diamond + Morganite — soft, feminine, and increasingly popular
  • Coloured gemstone + Coloured gemstone — fully bespoke, no rules

You can also mix stone shapes — pairing a round brilliant with a marquise, an oval with a pear, or an emerald cut with a cushion — to create visual interest and a ring that's uniquely yours.

Choosing the Right Metal

Toi et moi rings look exceptional in all metal types. Yellow gold gives the style a vintage warmth that echoes its Romantic-era roots. White gold or platinum brings a modern, high-contrast edge that makes diamonds and colourless stones dazzle. Rose gold adds a soft, romantic blush that pairs beautifully with morganite, pink sapphires, and ruby. If you're unsure, our team can help you match your metal choice to your stone combination during a bespoke consultation.

Custom vs. Ready-to-Ship

Every toi et moi ring in our collection can be fully personalised — from stone shape and carat weight to metal type, setting style, and engraving. If you already know what you want, browse our ready-to-ship styles for pieces that can be with you sooner. If you'd like to create something entirely one-of-a-kind, our bespoke design process lets you build the ring from the ground up with one of our designers.

Frequently Asked Questions About Toi et Moi Engagement Rings

Q1. What does "toi et moi" mean?

It is French for "you and me." The name reflects the design's symbolism: two stones representing two individuals brought together in a single piece of jewellery. It is pronounced "twah ay mwah."

Q2. What is the difference between a toi et moi ring and a two-stone ring?

They are the same thing. "Toi et moi" is the classic French name for the two-stone ring style, and the terms are used interchangeably. A toi et moi ring always features exactly two stones — no centre stone with side accents, but two equally prominent gems set side by side.

Q3. Do the two stones in a toi et moi ring have to match?

Not at all — and in fact, mixing cuts, colours, or even stone types is one of the most appealing aspects of the style. Many couples choose one stone to represent each person, selecting their birthstones, favourite colours, or stones with personal significance.

Q4. What stone shapes work best for a toi et moi ring?

Pear and oval cuts are the most popular because their elongated profiles naturally face each other on the band, creating a harmonious visual symmetry. Marquise, emerald cut, and round brilliant are also widely used. Asymmetrical pairings — such as a round with a pear — are increasingly popular for a more modern, editorial feel.

Q5. Can I customise a toi et moi ring?

Yes. We offer full bespoke customisation, including your choice of stone type, cut, carat weight, metal, setting style (prong, bezel, east-west), and personalised engraving. Our design team works with you from sketch to finished piece.

Q6. How much does a toi et moi engagement ring cost?

Price varies depending on the stones chosen, their carat weights, quality grades, and the metal. A toi et moi ring with lab-grown diamonds starts considerably more affordably than an equivalent natural diamond ring. We offer options across a range of budgets — contact us or book a consultation to discuss what's possible for yours.

Q7. Is a toi et moi ring suitable as an engagement ring?

Absolutely. It has been one of the most romantic engagement ring styles for over two centuries. It is a meaningful, distinctive, and increasingly sought-after alternative to the traditional solitaire — and no less significant a symbol of commitment.

Q8. How do I care for a toi et moi ring?

Clean your toi et moi ring with warm soapy water and a soft brush every few weeks. Avoid wearing it during activities that could knock or scratch the stones. We recommend a professional inspection and clean once a year to check the settings are secure — especially important with a two-stone design where both stones need to be held safely.